Friday, April 27, 2012

Top Ten Essays


Still Needing the F Word by Anna Quindlen
If Men Could Menstruate  by Gloria Steinem
Gate C22 by Ellen Bass
Eyes on the Prize by Seldon McCurrie
My Fight for Birth Control  by Margaret Sanger
The Way It Was  by Eleanor Cooney
Who Wants to Marry a Feminist by Lisa Miya-Jervis
The Politics of Housework by Pat Mainardi
She Said by Mariah Lockwood
Unraveling Gender by Cordelia Fine

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Arise, Sisters

OK, I put this one up because I really like the picture and the message. This has been an incredible year with republican legislators enacting bills and laws that are cutting off so many different support systems and rights for women and children. I seem to keep going back to Quindlen's essay on still needing the "F" word but it really is true. The matters she discussed pale in front of the cuts and law changes women are facing today. Luckily women are organizing, but there is a lot that needs to be done. But I think there may be an upside to this republican war against women. Women are becoming angry at the loss of hard fought for rights and benefits and are fighting back. I believe a whole generation that may have taken certain rights for granted now see the need to organize and commit to keep and extend those rights.

Have you seen the facebook site War Against Women? a lot of good info and pictures.

Walk a Mile in Her Shoes

"You can't really understand another person's experience until you've walked a mile in their shoes," is a saying we have heard since we were children. But these men are wearing women's high heel to bring attention to sexual violence against women. Our book reports that a sexual assault occurs every two minutes in the United States, and is largely under reported. The statistics for rape and physical assault are staggering. Georgia ranks 11th out of the 50 states and DC for incidences of forcible rape, but a GA state representative ( republican) wants to amend the state criminal codes, only in the matter of rape, stalking and domestic violence, to read "accuser" in stead of "victim".  In other words, if your wallet is stolen you are a true victim because obviously a crime really happened, unlike rape which is just what the women "accuses" the man of committing. You know, no real proof, she was probably asking for it, blah, blah, blah. It is horrific what the legislators (mostly, if not all, republican) are doing to women this year. Quindlen is right- we need the "F" word.

Travis' Seahorse

Our text book describes tattoos among young women as an example of self-expression. The book goes on to say that tattoos were traditionally a sign of male rebelliousness. But then states that tattoos among women have become so mainstream, that even the act of purchasing a tattoo can be seen as supporting a capitalistic system. The book adds that it would be more reactionary to actually work for social change, all true, I guess.

But our tattoos, my two daughters and I, have a special meaning for us. My son loved the ocean and the beach, as soon as he graduated he moved to Florida to live. He came home in 2008 but always wished to go back to the beach. In fact, he had a trip planned for the day after he died.  We each had a different seahorse tattooed on our arms to remember him by, of course we never forget him, maybe commemorate is a better word. When I see women with tattoos I always wonder what it means to them.

The Way It Was

               Eleanor Cooney in “The Way It Was” describes her own pregnancy at an young age and the horrors during her search for an abortion, pre Roe v Wade. Cooney explains that she waited too long and went to a series of so-called doctors who robbed her and made sexual advances but did not abort the fetus. Eventually, after telling her mother, she was able to have an abortion even at her late stage of gestation. In the essay Cooney describes in graphic detail the procedure known as a partial birth abortion which is often administered late in term. I think Cooney’s purpose in the graphic descriptions is to describe the dangers women face when searching for an illegal abortion. Cooney states a doctor said that deaths from abortions decreased drastically after abortion was legalized. Cooney brings up the late term abortions because she said the largest age group requesting this type of abortion is teenagers. She believes that proper education, and not strictly abstinence based education, is needed particularly around poor and marginalized girls.
                Many states have already, or in the process of tightening anti-abortion regulations. Some states are demanding parent’s signatures even when parental abuse is on the rise. Many states severely limit late term abortions but are also cutting programs that will assist single mothers, an example of “love the fetus, hate the baby” so prevalent in today’s society. Several states have enacted legislation requiring a vaginal wand examination which actually fits the definition of rape. Because the fear that tax payer money may be used for an abortion many states and organizations have cut or are limiting funds to Planned Parenthood making it difficult or impossible to get birth control or an abortion. Poor women, teenagers and women of color are disportiontly affected by these laws and may resort to illegal abortions to prevent pregnancy.
                 Terminating a pregnancy is a private matter, between a women and her doctor, even the laws that allow abortions is based on privacy.  As I have grown older my feelings about abortion are somewhat changing, the viability of a fetus is not quite as black and white to me as before, but my belief  in a women's right to choose has never changed.             

              

My Fight For Birth Control

               Margaret Sanger describes in “My Fight For Birth Control” the death of a poor women after her second botched abortion. After the first abortion the women begs Sanger for the “secret” believing rich, upper class women knew how to prevent pregnancy. The attending doctor told the woman to have her husband sleep on the roof. Sanger said she wanted to help women like Mrs. Sachs but was unable to offer anything but palliative care. After Sachs death Sanger vows to help women like Sachs learn how to control unwanted pregnancies. Sanger’s description of the young mother’s death from an abortion demonstrates how important affordable, safe birth control is for all women.
                The availability of birth control for women and even young girls is in danger of being all but outlawed. The Catholic Church wants to withhold birth control from its healthcare packages, stating that because the Church outlaws birth control they should not be forced to offer contraceptives, even to non-Catholics. The Church is also against contraceptives as part of the Affordable Health Bill. People say if it’s not in a health care package you can go to Planned Parenthood. But many states (and organizations) are cutting funds to Planned Parenthood citing the fact that PP offers abortions. Many young women use PP as a way to receive birth control and other gynecological services because they cannot ask parents (who may be abusive or religious) for support. Because of less financial support Planned Parenthood is facing financial difficulties and may need to cut service. Unfortunately, this lack of services will not prevent women from getting pregnant but it could increase the number of dangerous back alley abortions.
                Many of the same legislators that want to cut birth control funding and restrict laws allowing access to birth control are the same people that want to cut services to programs for pregnant women and children, it is such backward logic, an example of love the fetus, hate the child mentality.

Still Needing the "F" Word

In “Still Needing the “F” Word” Anna Quindlen writes that some women believe the need for feminists has come and gone, because we are living in a post-feminist era. In 2003 when Quindlen wrote her article it was a reasonable question; women were making strides in workforce, legislation regarding birth control, the right of choice and even voting were in place for decades. Today the choices Quindlen used for her essay in 2003, while important, cannot compare to the issues facing women today. She outline several college studies that verified college women were often more concerned about looking pretty than appearing smart, and wrote about a former governor that was a “serial groper.” Quindlen wondered then if perhaps we were slipping into an era of pre-feminism and today you must wonder if she is correct. She reminded us in the essay that we do need the “F” word now as much as we did in the years leading up to the 70s when many hard fought battles were won.
                Quindlen would agree that the actions of many legislators today would appear that we are living in a pre-feminism society. The contraceptive controversy regarding health benefits offered by Catholic universities and hospitals led to a senate panel consisting of all men refusing to allow Susan Fluke to speak before the committee. Later Rush Limbaugh referred to Fluke on air as a “slut” and a “prostitute” before asking to “see a tape of her having sex.” Many states are issuing strict abortion laws designed to stop all abortions. Many women are forced to have an unnecessary ultrasound with a vaginal wand prior to having an abortion. Recent law changes with regard to identification at polling places will make it more difficult for some women and other people to be able to cast their vote. Quindlen was right when she said Feminism. Feminism. Feminism.
               Quindlen was right when she said we needed to be vigilant not to fall back into pre-feminism. Although the political battleground seems to center around women this year, women must be sure not to allow hard fought for rights to be taken away. Although most of the legislation is enacted by white male politicians, many voters, male and female are voting the legislation into law. Sanger fought for decades for safe, legal contraceptives while Cooney and Quindlen remind us we can’t go back to pre-feminist ways. Quindlen was right we do still need the “F” word maybe more now than ever before.


Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Single Moms Cause Child Abuse in Wisconsin

A Wisconsin state senator has introduced a bill that claims single mother's (not single father's) unmarried status is a contributing factor in child abuse and neglect. Republican Senator Glenn Grotham, who has never been married and has no children, says children should only be raised by two biological parents and that the role of  fathers is the "primary prevention of child abuse and neglect." Grotham also supports policies that make it harder to access contraceptives "so that they are not in a situation ... to have an unwanted pregnancy." He has also sponsored a bill to repeal the state's Equal Pay Enforcement Bill stating that the "left and the social welfare establishment want children born out of wedlock because they will be more likely to be dependent on the system." He also believes programs like low-income housing assistance, school choice, WIC, tax credits, and food stamps make being a single mom more attractive than marriage. This is a blatant example of one man's War Against Women. Patricia Hill Collins explains in Towards a New Vision that many "key American institutions" are controlled by elite white men that structure oppression based on race, class and gender. In the end Collins calls on all of us to take a stand to end oppression. 

Limbaugh vs Fluke

"So Miss Fluke, and the rest of you Feminazis, here's the deal. If we are going to pay for your contraceptives, and thus pay for you to have sex. We want something for it. We want you post the videos online so we can all watch." Just a few words, but so very powerful. After calling Ms Fluke a slut the day before Rush Limbaugh upped his rhetoric by once again attacking Fluke, misrepresenting the contraception issue (no one is asking tax payers to pay for anything, it is a benefit being withheld from certain institutions), insulting all feminists and just being a jerk. Beyond the obvious problems with his statement when did it become OK to be so uncivil to a young women (or anyone else) who just wanted an opportunity to speak? Particularly from the Constitution waving right wingers?

(Rethinking) Gender


Transgender model Andrej Pejic has recently been signed by Jean Paul Gaultier's design house as its new face for runway and fragrance work. Pejic, who answers to both "he" and "she" claims not to have a strong gender identify saying that s/he "identify[s] as what I am." This statement brings to mind what Debra Rosenberg wrote in (Rethinking) Gender, that as transgender people become more visible we need to ask ourselves does "gender come in just two flavors?" Rosenberg explains that gender is far more complicated than "what is between our legs" adding that is also different from sexual orientation, which determines "who we are attracted to." At Smith College, traditionally a women's college, some students describe enrollment as "mostly women" because of the large number of "transmen" who become male after enrollment. In fact, Smith has removed all pronouns from the student government constitution as a gesture of support for the transgender community at school. Unfortunately, in spite of some instances of high profile acceptance transgendered people are still discriminated against and are subject to hate crimes

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Rosen vs Romney


The latest blast on the War Against Women front came from Hilary Rosen when she claimed Ann Romney, a stay at home mom, never worked a day in her life. The Romney campaign, anxious to get some street cred in the WAW, responded that raising five sons was work.  Unfortunately, this was just another example of the “mommy wars” fought every day between stay-at-home and working moms. Being a mom is hard work ; employed mothers often have hours of work once home while stay-at-home moms are frequently held to unattainable housework goals because she is at home. But Rosen’s comments brought out class issues, too. Many women said staying home with five kids when you are a multi-millionaire is not quite the same as a mom working several jobs to make ends. Even Jay Leno quipped “It’s easy to be a homemaker when you have ten homes to choose from.” An op-ed piece from the Washington Times Communities page even described Rosen as a bitter lesbian jealous of Ann Romney’s beauty, especially when Rosen’s own stay-at-home stint ended in a break-up. Probably the most important message we can all take away from this finger pointing is quite simple; women need to support each other  regardless of race, class, gender or any other constraint that divides us.